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SINGLE? GOOD You wanna know why this topic is of utmost concern to me? I’ll tell you. It is because some people just cant keep their wiggles in their pants, or boxers, as the case may be. It is because ladies can’t help but get someone to scratch that itch between thighs. You think condoms are safe so you have a licence to poke. To some HIV/AIDS is a tale from Atlantis, while to some it is a Nightmare-come-true. To some people they are so incomplete on their own – highly electronegative. They do not occur as a single element in their natural form. News Flash… you are highly dysfunctional. You are in dire need of help. Young people, listen up. When I say young people, I mean people who have dreams for their lives, their careers, their marriage. I mean those who have a Vision for their community and their world at large. I mean those who, no matter how far they’ve gone in the wrong direction, are not ashamed to turn around and make a fresh start in the right direction. I say this to the bewilderment of some folks, it is fun to be single. I want to state it categorically that before you are married you have to be a self-existing single. Unfortunately a lot of people are never single. So many are tied up from childhood. So many jump from one relationship to the other. Never having to stop and ask, “wait a minute, who am I and what do I want, wait, just before that, what do I need.” These questions cannot be answered in a crowd setting, otherwise you will end up defining yourself based on other people’s ideals and beliefs. This is where many destinies are aborted. Before I go on any further, let me define what I mean by being single. By the term SINGLE I mean a state of completeness, clarity of purpose, emotional self-support and stability, single- minded approach to life and a predefined world-view. So you can go ahead and judge yourself and see if you were ever really single. It could be a cause of your present marital squabbles or the emotional squalor in which you are now living in. At least thank God you now know. So I state it again, it is really fun to be single. Now so many of you will believe me. You are more complete as a bachelor than when you go pissing around in those that steal your strength and those that destroy kings. Sisters are you with me? If any guy asks you to sleep with him as a proof that you love him, please, I beg you, kick him on the balls. Yeah … exactly what I meant, thank you. Tell him that love is patient … and that it hurts sometimes too! You deserve a complete man who will love the complete you. A man that is not insecure. It is only insecure people that will want proofs. Your time and your attention are enough proof. Love yourself and know that you’re a kingmaker and for the love of God know too that you are a king-breaker (don’t even think about it). For my young Buddies out there tell your self you deserve the best –but that of course is if you are- and that you do not need a liability. And please accept help when sisters offer it. Only insecure men want to prove that they are more capable than they really are. We men, we seem to love to dominate, so we always go for the insecure ladies who will not stand up to us and thereby threaten our apparent security. But in the end it backfires and leaves us with hurtful relationships. Where there is more giving than receiving as a result of one playing VOLTRON…. The Defender Of The Universe. The picture you paint and the song you sing – here I come to save the day – makes her start demanding more than you could really give. I better stop here before I get too much attention for myself…like 2face or 2pac… any one of them For counselling contact me with the following no 2348077068839 or send me a mail nedum4eva@yahoo.com you can also drop your comments on this sight. Posted by fyne boi at 15:14 | Permanent Link | Comments (0) |